How To Say Yes - LOA

When you are asked a question, does your mind immediately go to a negative answer? How about a non-committal answer? Do you find it difficult to say yes to people?

If you said ‘yes’ to any of the above questions, ironically, you have a problem saying “YES!”.

Fear will always try to get the best of you.

And it usually does.

It’s quite hard to sway your mind to think positively when it’s easier to gravitate towards what is easier to believe–which are the bad things.

So just to nudge you over to the light side, here are a few things you should remember about saying yes.

Nothing to lose

Yes, sometimes you lose stability or comfort when you say yes to things like a new job, a new house, or a new partner, but the benefits almost always outweighs the risks.

By saying no, you risk being stagnant.

That’s the worst thing that could happen to you.

Not failing, not getting proved wrong.

It’s dangerous to not want to take risks because that’s when you really lose something. You lose your gusto for life, for learning and exploring.

People want to be around positivity

Think about the people you like hanging out with the most. What do they have in common?

It’s probably because they’re fun, they make you laugh, they make you feel light and forget about your problems even for a while, right?

The ones who are quick to say no usually don’t get invited out as much as the ones who are game for anything.

On the job front, the go-getters, the ones who aim to please the boss, the team, although can be annoying, are usually the go-to guys of the office.

And there’s nothing wrong with that.

It makes you more visible and the top-of-mind, maybe even for a promotion.

‘Yes’ opens doors, ‘No’ puts up walls

You’ll start to notice that when you say yes to something, it snowballs into more things that sound like good ideas.

The more you say yes, the more frequently they will come.
When you say no to something or someone, the next time they think of something to ask you, they’ll think twice about it — and there’s a bigger chance that they won’t ask because you have already said no to them once.

If you want people to keep coming to you, learn to say yes more often.

Success is paved by yeses

If you’re more prone to saying yes, to be okay with changes and challenges, you’ll open yourself up to more chances at success in all aspects of your life.

When you say yes, conquer your fears, that’s when you begin manifesting your dreams into reality.

That’s when they will come a-knockin’ at your door.

Lots of times they’re already there, but we refuse to let them enter our lives.

So next time you feel the urge to say no, turn it into a yes instead and see how it changes you.

Yes... am a really woman with 3 angels..