letter from LOA
Hi Susi,
I firmly believe there's a reason you've been through certain challenging experiences throughout your life..
Life molds you, strengthens you, and teaches you.. so that you grow within, and pass this experience on to empower others and even inspire them.
Are you destined to inspire people with your experience and story?
In your confusion you need to be aware of a few things. You need to be able to ask yourself the right questions to help you clarify your life.
Below are such questions that can help you figure out some things in your life.
1. Am I happy with who I am?
We all ask ourselves about happiness. If we're happy about our life in general, but we need to specifically ask ourselves if we're happy with the person we are at this moment. Its important that you find happiness in the person you've become.
You have gone the through the things that you have gone through to make you who you are and if you are not happy or you have not made peace with it, then theres much room for improvement.
Dont let a day pass without looking at the mirror and being proud of the reflection that stares back at you.
2. Do I still have goals? What am I doing to achieve them
Goals are important to plot because they guide us, our thoughts and actions. Its good to have goals that are reachable to you now because the encourage you to keep moving forward.
Ask yourself what the steps you need to take in order to achieved all the goals you have plot out on your time line.Are you following them? Are your actions in accordance to what you want?
Hopefully they are and if they're not, now is the time to readjust.
3. How are you as a friend, partner, parent/child?
All of us play different roles in our lives. We're not just people per se, but also different kinds of people to others.
Identify a role of yours and get a feel of how you are as that person to someone else. It would be great if you maintain an open line of communication to the people concerned so that you can ask them how you are as that person for them.
Its healthy to get feedback from our loved ones because ultimately those are the relationship we work to improve on a constant basis.
4. Do you look at you accomplishments as much as or more than your failures?
When we're assessing our lives, we often see the failures that we have experienced a hearth break, a previous job, a lost opportunity. But we rarely look at how far we've come since those mishaps.
We rarely look at the strong persone we've become and allow us to be proud of ourselves and our accomplishments.
You cant discount that from your life. Count the positive more than the deficits.
Those are minor setbacks after all. The more permanent things in our lives are the successes that help launch us forward.
5. Do you allow yourself to rest, to take breaks?
To rest is not just to sleep at the end of the day. Being well rested is much more than that. You need to let yourself breathe in between work things.
You dont want to burn yourself out and feel bad about the work that you do.
It would also be helpful to have at least one hobby that lets you disconnect from the work that you do. Never underestimate the power of rest and what it could give you.
6. How do you feel about change:
Your attitude about change determines more or less your success in life. As we all konw, life is mostly about changes. Almost nothing stays the same.
We go through stages and in those stages we learn about ourselves, others, and a myriad of factors that will affect us in more ways than one.
If you are not open to adapting to other things, to trying new experiences to be suprised by life, you will most likely stop living at some point and stay stagnant.
7. Do you think you have more to offer?
We constantly have to ask ourselves if we have to offer in our jobs/career to our family our partners to our community and to the world.
There has to be something good that we can give back that we can give back that we can put on the table, It allows us to keep growing, to keep pushing ourselves to be better and not let anything gather dust, especially if it will be beneficial for others as well.
I firmly believe there's a reason you've been through certain challenging experiences throughout your life..
Life molds you, strengthens you, and teaches you.. so that you grow within, and pass this experience on to empower others and even inspire them.
Are you destined to inspire people with your experience and story?
In your confusion you need to be aware of a few things. You need to be able to ask yourself the right questions to help you clarify your life.
Below are such questions that can help you figure out some things in your life.
1. Am I happy with who I am?
We all ask ourselves about happiness. If we're happy about our life in general, but we need to specifically ask ourselves if we're happy with the person we are at this moment. Its important that you find happiness in the person you've become.
You have gone the through the things that you have gone through to make you who you are and if you are not happy or you have not made peace with it, then theres much room for improvement.
Dont let a day pass without looking at the mirror and being proud of the reflection that stares back at you.
2. Do I still have goals? What am I doing to achieve them
Goals are important to plot because they guide us, our thoughts and actions. Its good to have goals that are reachable to you now because the encourage you to keep moving forward.
Ask yourself what the steps you need to take in order to achieved all the goals you have plot out on your time line.Are you following them? Are your actions in accordance to what you want?
Hopefully they are and if they're not, now is the time to readjust.
3. How are you as a friend, partner, parent/child?
All of us play different roles in our lives. We're not just people per se, but also different kinds of people to others.
Identify a role of yours and get a feel of how you are as that person to someone else. It would be great if you maintain an open line of communication to the people concerned so that you can ask them how you are as that person for them.
Its healthy to get feedback from our loved ones because ultimately those are the relationship we work to improve on a constant basis.
4. Do you look at you accomplishments as much as or more than your failures?
When we're assessing our lives, we often see the failures that we have experienced a hearth break, a previous job, a lost opportunity. But we rarely look at how far we've come since those mishaps.
We rarely look at the strong persone we've become and allow us to be proud of ourselves and our accomplishments.
You cant discount that from your life. Count the positive more than the deficits.
Those are minor setbacks after all. The more permanent things in our lives are the successes that help launch us forward.
5. Do you allow yourself to rest, to take breaks?
To rest is not just to sleep at the end of the day. Being well rested is much more than that. You need to let yourself breathe in between work things.
You dont want to burn yourself out and feel bad about the work that you do.
It would also be helpful to have at least one hobby that lets you disconnect from the work that you do. Never underestimate the power of rest and what it could give you.
6. How do you feel about change:
Your attitude about change determines more or less your success in life. As we all konw, life is mostly about changes. Almost nothing stays the same.
We go through stages and in those stages we learn about ourselves, others, and a myriad of factors that will affect us in more ways than one.
If you are not open to adapting to other things, to trying new experiences to be suprised by life, you will most likely stop living at some point and stay stagnant.
7. Do you think you have more to offer?
We constantly have to ask ourselves if we have to offer in our jobs/career to our family our partners to our community and to the world.
There has to be something good that we can give back that we can give back that we can put on the table, It allows us to keep growing, to keep pushing ourselves to be better and not let anything gather dust, especially if it will be beneficial for others as well.
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